I was watching a choral concert that my little sister was in the other week when, as I listend and looked around, I saw an expression on one of the chorus member's face. The thought that hit me right away was "I know that look. I've felt that look." But I don't want to say or do the wrong thing in case I am wrong. Unfortunately there hasn't been enough time to think things through, while my family and I prepare for christmas, so I don't know what to do. Any advice would be very much appreciated.