I don't know if I should tell the judge what happend yesteday when I was at work I just talked to my therapist about it and I asked her if I should and she asked me if I called the police I told her no but I imformed my supervisor right away and my supervisor told my coworker to tell him he's not allowed to be there. so my therapist told me since I didnt call the police the judge might think im not taking the tro seriously but I let her know that as soon as I saw his car I buzzed for help right away and imformed my suppervisor he is the one who is not taking the tro seriously since he keeps violating it. my dad and my case manager told me I should imform the judge that he has violated the tro more then once. just finished getting all my edvidence together for court tommarow and also the psycritst that I say a few months ago I asked him him if he could write a letter for that I could also show the judge so he wrote me one my therapist will also be going with me tommarow my anxiety is high right now I feel sick to my stomach

How can rape be justified some people have to be some kind of sick arrogant pricks to do such a hurtful thing. Do they think about what it will do to the victims and their familes? These people who have to suffer and are scared to speak up about it. Sometimes the rapist gets away with it. Please don't stay in silence speak up. We are human beings we all are so why do some people feel the need to do such a horriable crime that is not right It shouldn't matter how your behavior was or what situation you were in no matter what the circumstances are good or bad, it does not justify rape, in any way Nobody deserves to be raped Period!

has anyone ever have to run into their rapist and if so how do you handel it? I was raped by this guy I know I was too afraid to report it. Days later after he raped me he started coming into my workplace even more everyday to see me he would always look around for me and if I was there he would stares at me and he even comes into my line when he coud've went to the other one it creeps me out. Eveytime when he comes in I get sick to my stomach and have anxitey attack it get bad to were my heart races my hands and legs shake and I wanna get away from him I literally can't be around him because i'm so uncomfrontable. I even told him I was uncomfrontable he asked me why I told him because of what happend he just laughed I didn't find it funny. I don't know what his problem is or what he wants but he needs to back off. Some people tell me I should try getting a restraing oreder butI don't have enough edvidence and i'm also afraid to report it who would beleve me.