Posted: 4/6/2009 - 3 comment(s) [ Comment ] - 0 trackback(s) [ Trackback ]
Category: Support Group

I was adopted by B.A.C.A. and I think they are the best people out there. I wanted to let everyone know about who that are and what they do.

B.A.C.A:

Mission Statement- Bikers Against Child Abuse (BACA) exists with the intent to create a safer environment for abused children. We exist as a body of Bikers to empower children to not feel afraid of the world in which they live. We stand ready to lend support to our wounded friends by involving them with an established, united organization. We work in conjunction with local and state officials who are already in place to protect children. We desire to send a clear message to all involved with the abused child that this child is part of our organization, and that we are prepared to lend our physical and emotional support to them by affiliation, and our physical presence. We stand at the ready to shield these children from further abuse. We do not condone the use of violence or physical force in any manner, however, if circumstances arise such that we are the only obstacle preventing a child from further abuse, we stand ready to be that obstacle.

How B.A.C.A works-Bikers Against Child Abuse, Inc. (BACA) is organized with a central contact person to receive calls from referring agencies and individuals. A recognized, authorized agency with which the child has had contact determines that the child is still frightened by his or her environment. The agency representative contacts BACA, or refers the individual to contact BACA and the name and address of the child is given to our BACA/Child Liaison. The Liaison determines that the case is legitimate, meaning that the authorities have been contacted, and the case in being processed within the system. The Liaison contacts the family and an initial ride is organized to meet the child at their home or in some other location. The entire BACA chapter rides to meet the child and he/she is given a vest with a BACA patch sewn on the back. The child is free to wear the vest or not, and we support their decision. The child is also given bumper stickers, and other gifts that are generally donated by the public. These initial visits generally last about a half an hour.

Following this initial contact, the child is given the name and number of two BACA members residing geographically closest to them, who then become the childs primary contact person(s). Prior to becoming the primary contacts for the child, the bikers are cleared for participation by clearing an extensive background check, have ridden with the Chapter for at least a year, and have received special instructions from the Licensed Mental Health Professional. Anytime the child feels scared and feels the need for the presence of his new BACA family, the child may call upon these bikers to go to the childs house and provide the necessary reassurance to feel safe and protected. BACA members and supporters also support the children by: providing escorts for them if they feel scared in their neighborhoods; riding by their homes on a regular basis; supporting the children at court and parole hearings; attending their interviews, and; staying with the children if they are alone and frightened. The BACA members never go to the childs house alone and never without the knowledge or permission of the parents. Our mission is not to be permanently engaged as the childs power. Our mission is to help the children and their families learn how powerful they can be. Our presence will be available as long as the child needs us. BACA also holds other functions for the children such as Bar-B-Ques, and parties.

B.A.C.A website: http://www.bacausa.com/

They are the keepers of the children and you can hear them coming by the rumble of their bikes.

Posted: 4/5/2009 - 2 comment(s) [ Comment ] - 0 trackback(s) [ Trackback ]
Category: Need Advice

One of my male friends was raped by his older girl friend while he was spending the night at a friends house. She was his first serious girl friend, but he was sort of a boy toy to her. He tried to tell people what happen, but almost no one believed him.

I have done research on the topic, but am still a little confused as to how I can help him. I know that the most important thing is for me to let him know that I believe him, but what else can I do? He has a very hard time trusting anyone and has started lying compulsively. He says it is to keep people out, but I don't know.

I was sexually abused, but the people I told believed me straight off so I don't have any experince with having people not beilive.

Also if any male victums can help me to understand what he is going through I would appreciate it greatly. I know that he is going through a lot of what I went though, but I also understand that some of it is very different because of they way girls and guys are treated by society.

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