My husband and I bought a truck this week and when he brought it home I was so excited. It is a used truck but in mint condition. My husband walked me around the truck and when I saw the back window I freaked out....I don't know why but there were harley davidson stickers on the back window and I got the SAME OLD sinking feeling in my stomache that I get when I think about my ex (my abuser) ....I know he drove bikes but none were harleys....I can't figure it out except to say that there are some memories I am not conscious of that are triggering the hell out of me. My husband just laughed and said he wanted to keep the stickers when I asked him to take them off. I didn't tell him how much this was bothering me because being Native I didn't think he would want to keep biker stickers on the truck. Last night I told him it was triggering the heck out of me and he said he was going to take them off and was just teasing me. He just didn't want the funny look on the window you get when stickers peel off. I can't figure this out and if anyone has any ideas on how that would be great!
Thanks!
Blessings, Mandee