My grandmother is not well, has not been for awhile now, we are waiting for the day she passes on. My mother made huge sacrifices and relocated to be by her side. She moved homes, quit job and had to leave her family behind. I know it sounds bad, but I would do the same for her ( my mother ). My grandmother is a tough lady and has been through alot but, I was not expecting her life to be full of abuse. She told my mother awhile back her childhood/teenage years was very hard. Went into detail with my mom. My mother was taken back some and completly felt useless and angry. The abuse started for Grandma at the age of 3 and ened at 16 when she met my grandfather and married him to get away. Grandmas' mother died when she was 2 years old and her father never remarried. He took everything out on her by exreme physical abuse and sexual. She was never educated, in fact I remember when I was a child she could'nt read or write. What she endured was horrific and she kept this in till now being 93 years old. Holly fuck, what along time to keep something so harsh in quite. When she was told about me and my sisters abuse as children from my father, she fell apart. I'm sure from the fact that he did this to us but, also triggered her about her own abuse. So now we have abuse that runs in both sides of the family, what the fuck. I'm extremly numb right now and full of anger. I don't know what else to say. She is one strong lady and I'm so proud to call her my BABA. I love you Baba.